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Article sabotage

Why we sabotage the things we want most

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Tool sabotage

The Sabotage Audit

Video

How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over

The talk where the 'five second rule' first took shape. Blunt, tough-love, and useful for anyone waiting to feel ready.

Technique name

Name it to tame it

2 min read
Video

The Power of Believing That You Can Improve

A short talk with a big shift in it: hearing a hard result as "not there yet" instead of "not good enough".

Article promise

How to keep a promise to yourself

2 min read
Article reliable

Your inner critic is not a reliable witness

2 min read
Book

Mindset

The book behind the growth-mindset idea. Dweck shows how believing ability is fixed or buildable changes what you attem…

Carol S. Dweck
Technique person

Coach yourself in the third person

2 min read
Video

How to Practise Emotional First Aid

A warm, sensible talk that reframes self-compassion as basic maintenance, with two habits that matter for anyone who se…

Book

The Gifts of Imperfection

Brown's research on shame and worthiness, turned into a practical case for dropping perfectionism and the belief that y…

Brené Brown
Book

Self-Compassion

The researcher who put self-compassion on the map makes the case, with evidence, that kindness beats harsh self-critici…

Kristin Neff
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